Tag: Take Control

Do you know why a lot of people don’t like roller coasters, are afraid to ride roller coasters? It’s because of the lack of control. When you ride a rollercoaster, the control is completely out of your hands and for some it can get a little bit scary. The good thing is life is not like a rollercoaster, sometimes may feel like a rollercoaster, but it’s not like a rollercoaster in terms that we have control over the outcome in our life.

And I don’t mean to sound a little bit. You know, but the life we are living right now, we created it, we created the situation that we’re currently in right now, but the great thing is unlike a rollercoaster. We have control. We have control over the outcome of our lives and we have control where we’re going to go him from here on out.

So I like to compare this to acting and it’s obviously not a bad way is to go on as many auditions as you possibly can, craft your ability and continue to work to get better and better and better. But there are other ways nowadays that we can get into the acting industry.

And some have gotten into industries that otherwise would not have given them a chance by, you know, like uploading videos on YouTube or uploading a video on Instagram and others, Tiktok, and that’s how they get a little bit of exposure.

There’s this movie called “The Room”. Some of you may have heard of it now “The Room” has kind of became a cult classic and the writer and the director and I think the producer as well of “The Room”, Tommy Wiseau, kept on going on auditions and they kept on rejecting him. So one day, he went to his friend, Greg and said, “You know what? I’m getting rejected. I’m tired of getting rejected. I’m going to just make my own movie. I’m going to write it. And I’m a director. I’m going to produce it.” And that’s what he did.

Now, here’s the deal. “The Room” out and end up being considered one of the worst movies of all time, but it had a cult classic in terms of people were just so fascinated and, you know, Tommy Wiseau himself and the other actors and the script and the way the movie is made, that it became a movie that even if it’s bad, people just can’t help but not watch. It’s kind of fascinating. And now they made a movie out of it called The Disaster Artist. And he was in that movie. He made a short cameo in that movie. And you could say what you want about it, but I respect him for taking action and for just doing something to get him to that industry that was rejecting him so much.

So the point in me sharing that story is that the great thing is, in our lives we have control, we have control over what we do, how we react, we have control over the results we get, how much work that we’re putting into, the skills that we learn, and decide to learn and every skill is essentially learnable if we put enough time and effort into it and from here on out, you can change your life, and once you realize that you have 100 percent control of your life, nothing can stop you. Nothing can stop you from achieving your dreams and goals.

The main thing point is that it’s your life and it’s time for us to take control of our lives. And that’s what I’m going to start doing that because it’s always I’ve always known about this, but it hasn’t really set in for me until just recently.

You also want to expand your mindset by educating yourself and whatever field that you want to educate yourself before. Taking the time to read a blog, time to expand your skills and in turn that people will see you as more valuable to the marketplace or whatever that you want to become.

Short about me: My name is Brent Hosaka and I am a Health, Wellness, and Lifestyle Coach from Hawaii. if you want to read my full story you can click here.